‘’HOW TO BE A PROPER GENTLEMAN’’ Advice from one of our playmates :

So you did it! In days of swiping left and right and waiting hopelessly for a date, you finally mustered up the courage and sought “RedLight Streets” , the premium one stop destination to all your dreams and desires. I am associated with “RedLight Streets” from quite a while and let me tell you, this online service doesn’t disappoints.

 

They say “ You wouldn’t treat your auto mechanic poorly and you wouldn’t treat a one night stand like a vending machine “. So pull up your man pants and take a look at Do’s and Don’ts and how to be a gentleman on a date with your playmate:

 

         1.“ Employ normal good manners “ : I know in these times a proper etiquette is less common than it used to be, but come on guys!! This is not a rocket science. Just try to remember all the things your mom taught you; ask rather than demand, say ‘thank you’ , get her a chair, hold the door open for her or at least take off your hat when a woman is in the room etc. You'll be surprised how much of a difference it makes in your experience. Show her chivalry still exists.

 

         2.“ Your first impression is everything “ : In order to improve your chances on dates, don’t write vulgar, selfish messages that describe all the things that you wanna do with her; that just immature and not really being a gentleman. Instead, write a message introducing yourself, when you would like to meet up and ask politely if she is free. Just because you are paying for a person’s time, .doesn't mean you should not be respectful of them, especially if you want a good time.”

Arranging a date and chatting to a companion is not like ordering a pizza !! It's a highly personal interaction .. make it as pleasant as you want it to be..Have fun, be light hearted, it's meant to be fun and fabulous.. So treat it as such..

 

         3. “Respect her limits and professionalism “ : Asking personal questions is a big NO-NO! A   companion is not your childhood sweetheart or you’re not lining up personalities to see if there is a future. If she doesn’t want to give you her personal number or let you take her picture, drop the subject right away. Don’t ask her “typical man questions” ; remember a question is a door you walk through and the same question could be asked of you...so better not to ask..

 

So be a gentleman, be polite and I hope these insights will help you

Love,

Greek goddess

XoXo

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WAYS TO ATTRACT AND KEEP THE CLIENTS YOU WANT

Have you seen the movie ‘Pretty Woman’ , oh my oh my!!. Julia Roberts is so mesmerising ( I have a secret girl crush on her :p !) . While stories like this may romanticise the job, not all of us are going to have a Richard Gere climbing up our fire escapes.

But there are a lot of handsome, educated, successful and kind clients out there who want to share their time with someone who is beautiful, intelligent and caring like you, my “RedLight Streets” playmate. As with any job, continuing to improve upon yourself will only get you further and further along, both in your skill set and in increasing amount of money you can request from clients. Here are few ways to do just that :

  1. Be honest from the beginning so the client knows what to except : Make sure your photos are current, of high quality and show what you look like in reality! Don’t lie on your profile ; if you have put any specific skill set or place you have travelled, chances are the client will be attracted to it, will contact you in part because of it and will be annoyed if they discover that you are lying. Also if there’s anything you are uncomfortable with ( an event you would rather not go to, a kind of restaurant you can't enjoy) , let them know that as well. Chances are, while it is your job to make sure they are having a great time, they’ll want you to be enjoying yourself too.

  2. Educate yourself : Connect to the world around you through books, local sports, current event etc. Networking is a key my friend! You want to know what people are talking about, that way you have a chance to connect with your client. I’m not saying that you should be an expert on ,let's say cryptocurrencies, debts crises or NFL schedule. But if a client is a huge sports fan or a financial analyst, you’ll be attracting him if you have something to contribute to a conversation or just if you need a starter for one.                                       

  3. Take up hobbies : Keep your eyes open and observe what activities the kind of client you’re trying to attract is interested in, and then pick it up casually eg. if you like athletic man learn how to play golf or tennis. And in this way you will be more likely to be invited to functions, events or social gatherings ( and this way you will be able to earn more!)

  4. Know what you have to offer: If you advertise online, chances are you're not the only face your clients are seeing. Think of what makes you unique? Think of the kind of client you are looking forward to work with, and target your profile with (honest) things that might attract them.

So pull up your socks and go get him girl pal!!!

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Love,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Greek Goddess

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    RedLight Streets playmate….

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